The Pushkar scam is the only reason why I hated India

[vc_row][vc_column][vc_column_text]Upon finding out that Pushkar is only an hour away from Jaipur, I immediately booked a taxi to do a day trip. I haven’t met anyone who’s been but I heard that it’s something worth checking out.

It was already my third week traveling in India so I was already very comfortable. India has a bad press when it comes to women travelers but spending enough time in the country made me realise Indian regions like Rajasthan are very safe for tourists.

But this is not a story about unsafety for female travelers. Like me, you’re probably not going to see a lot of articles relating to the Pushkar scam and I pray really hard that you will see this before visiting Pushkar.[/vc_column_text][/vc_column][/vc_row][vc_row][vc_column][vc_empty_space][mkdf_section_title position=”” title_tag=”” disable_break_words=”no” tagline=”Pushkar Scam Experience” title=”The flower scam in Pushkar: what’s it all about?”][vc_column_text]Pushkar Lake is one of the holiest sites in India, mainly because the most important Brahma temple is here. According to Hindu mythology, Lord Brahma was once cursed that he will not be worshipped by the people. To date, this is the sole temple in the world where Lord Brahma is worshipped. Many pilgrims come to Pushkar every year in the belief that praying and bathing in the lake has great healing and ‘purifying’ powers.

I have always been fascinated by Brahma, Vishnu, and Shiva. And Pushkar seemed to be a good place to start in getting to know them. Unlike many other religions, Hinduism has been the most interesting for me. I don’t really identify it as a religion but a way of life. I’ve been to a lot of religion-driven countries but India doesn’t feel like anything is imposed on you.

Pushkar was very quiet. I’d expected it to be super touristic but I guess we arrived pretty early. No-husband and I were already traveling around India for three weeks. We were already seeing the Rajasthan region too deep we wanted something different. The taxi couldn’t go into the narrow streets so we started walking into the city.

“Welcome to Pushkar,”  a stranger shook our hands. I did not expect a very warm welcome from someone who’s not a tour guide and/or some person of power. He was literally a man walking down the street just saying hi.

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It is believed that Brahma dropped a lotus flower in a lake and the city of Pushkar came to existence.

The conversation started with the usual where-are-you-from-what-do-you-do kind of thing. After the mini-chat, we were instructed to go to the lake before doing anything else in the city.

We hadn’t had breakfast so our initial plan was to eat. There were many cafes in Pushkar that appeared to be serving good coffee (at least that’s what the exterior screams.) We were also very amused about the restaurants with menus in Hebrew. I knew that India was a place where Israelis go after their mandatory military service but I didn’t realize it was that big. So big that restaurants had their menus translated into Hebrew.

I threw the flower in the trash when a random guy (not the same person who gave me the flower) scooped it and put it back in my palms.

“Go to the lake and throw the flower there. All your wishes will come true.”

WTF was my initial reaction. I told no-husband we should grab food first before going to the lake. In every alley we passed by, every freaking person is pointing to the lake. There was even one man who asked if we already had a flower. As if the flower is a gate pass to your day trip in Pushkar.

I don’t remember why I submitted to this when I was dying to have a cup of coffee but we did go to the lake first. Pushkar Lake is so beautiful I immediately took my camera out to snap some shots. I was standing at the top of the plight of stairs overlooking the lake. The minute I was about to click the shutter, a Brahmin grabbed my hand and said: “please proceed to the lake for the prayer.”

Brahmin is a class in Hinduism specializing as priests, teachers, and protectors of sacred learning across generations. They are the highest rank in India’s caste system. All the tourists about to go to the lake were welcomed by a priest in long white clergy clothing.

I felt a little shameful about taking a picture first before participating in this flower ritual. When I started traveling 10 years ago, I made a pact to always be respectful of the culture I am trying to be part of and to always participate even if I don’t have any idea about it. For example, I joined a goat offering in Jordan during Eid regardless of the terror of how graphic the ‘killing’ was. There was a lot of blood but I endured it. Traveling will make you understand that culture is subjective and that it is a bit personal. I never expected another country to have the same ways and means as mine nor did I expect them to believe in what I believe in. The beauty of the cultures of the world is their diversity and complexity. There were many cultures that I didn’t agree with (mostly in my time in the Middle East) but I promise myself that I will always respect them no matter where I go to.

I was separated from no-husband. Each visitor was supposed to be with one (1) priest. We were all directed to sit at the bottom of the stairs where we can reach the lake. There were about six (6) of us seated 50 meters away from each other. Half of this group are Indians. I saw no-husband already started the ritual.

“Do you still have parents?” I swear these were his first words.

“Yes.” I answered.

“Okay, so let us pray for your mama and papa. Repeat after me.”

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As compared to other Hindu Gods Brahma has only 5 historic temples in the world and the most important one is in Pushkar.

I sat in a praying position. The flower was still in my palm. He murmured a bunch of words which I repeated obediently. Everyone was so quiet and I felt really happy that I was finally experiencing something as holy as this. Guys, if it hasn’t sunk in yet, Pushkar is really a big deal in Hinduism.

“Now, let’s pray for your brothers and sisters. How many do you have?”

“4.” I responded quietly.

There were chants. Some languages I didn’t understand. After all these whispering and repeating, he asked me to wash my hands in the lake. I dipped my right hand into the lake. I don’t want to judge a ‘holy’ city but seriously, the water looked really dirty. The Indians around me were swimming in it (for more powerful salvation I guess) but I did not join the party.

The priest then told me a short story about how the city shares everything: food, money, ‘blessings’ etc. Everything is communal. From his tone, I knew he was going somewhere that involves money.

“Now you need to pay 1,000 rupees ($14 USD) for each family member we prayed for. Otherwise, the Lords will not grant your wishes.”

What the freaking feck. I thought I was going delirious for a second. Is this priest really asking me for money??? I mean I heard about how church people are all about money but this is the first time I am experiencing it. This priest is actually asking me to pay for salvation! I have 2 parents and 4 siblings: does this mean I have to pay 6,000 rupees ($84 USD) for a prayer I didn’t even ask for?

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The Pushkar camel fair happens every November – a day dedicated to honoring the Brahma.

Let’s have a quick recap: I went down the taxi. I entered the city of Pushkar. A man welcomed me and put a flower in my hand. I tried to get rid of the flower but another man put it back. I was coerced by a lot of people to go to the lake first before I do anything else. A priest escorts me to the lake to pray. I do not remember volunteering for any of these.

Holy sh&$t! I got scammed and this is what it feels like.

There is no way I am paying 6,000 rupees. I don’t remember saying anything to the priest but I remember leaving. I went back to the top of the stairs where I left my shoes. On the way up, I turned to no-husband and gave him the “we have to leave” signal. He wasn’t looking at me. I saw 5 priests swarming at him. He was ready to take his wallet. I was looking at him with my big anime eyes saying, “If you can read my mind now, do not give these idiots money!” 

Of course, he didn’t get the mental telepathy message. He gave them money. Up to this day, he said he understood it but was trapped with 5 priests around him and couldn’t escape. I never asked how much he gave them and I never want to know.

We walked as far from the lake as possible. I didn’t even have a chance to take pictures. I wanted to leave Pushkar asap. I didn’t care if I saw nothing. This Pushkar scam was enough reason to leave.

I kept shouting at no-husband. I had this anger burning inside. I wanted to shout “f#ck you all” but I couldn’t. Why did you give them money was the only thing I could say in public. No-husband swears I said it on loop for over an hour.

After a while, I realized it’s not even about the money — it’s about being scammed. How in the world did I travel 10 years on the road without experiencing any scams and now this happened?! I felt robbed and taken advantage of most especially when it was so easy to avoid that circumstance. I was so angry because I did not see it coming. I am still one of those people who think that religion is something you can’t say no to. I felt like the instruction of going to the lake was something I should follow diligently. I never thought that as a tourist, I had a choice.

But most of all, it broke my heart that nobody in the local community warned us. It’s as if the whole city of Pushkar were united on a mission to direct tourists to go to the lake. We passed stores, mini kiosks, restaurants on the way to the lake but no one said anything. Everyone saw the flower on my hand, too. It was a long way to the lake from the entrance of the city to be warned. I felt really betrayed.

If I did not get to the lake, I really think I would have had a different experience. Up to this day, I still cringe at the thought of being scammed but I am not regretful of this experience because I can now warn a lot of people about the very aggressive Pushkar scam.

I wish I have a good story to tell about Pushkar but right now, I cannot find the good in it. I am not saying the same thing is going to happen to you but there’s a 100% chance that it will if you did not have prior research like me. Below are some good references about the Pushkar scam which I only read only after the incident:


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  1. We had a similar experience in pashupatinath in Nepal and my (now) husband is Hindu so he realised and did the same thing you did. We’re from India and we aren’t spared too.

  2. I have lived in India for about 4 years… never been to Pushkar, many people told me it wasn’t worth it. What I have learnt, living there for so long, is that I will always be scammed or tricked or treated differently because I am a foreigner. For them, I was “just a tourist to take money from”, and that is something that taught me a lot. They always thought I was a “white tourist” till the point I would smartly uncover their scam and start abusing them as only a “real Indian” would do. My Indian friends warned me very well and thought me how to get out of several situations. Was very lucky. Not proud of the slang abuse, sadly that’s the only language they understand. India is a controversial country; you will love it, and hate it as much. Thanks for sharing this, though. Now I’m thankful I’ve never been there. I will spread the voice around. 🙂

  3. Why I kept reading no-husband? Hahaha it was confusing. Was it just a hyphen or em dash? Like “I told no — husband and I…” Also, the priest didn’t ask money for your “salvation” but for your wishes to be granted. Please correct it.

  4. Oohh dear, that really sucks!!! I was there four years ago on a solo trip. I stayed in Pushkar for almost a week and here is where I confirm I’m super lucky usually, plus I’m super ignoring people usually so it’s saving me lots of annoying situations.
    I haven’t experienced any scam other than the usual tuktuk trying to bring me to the city (that I used to get there for free, lol) it’s good to know about this if it happens I go there again.
    Thank’s for sharing and I wish there are no more scams in your travels!

  5. Yes. really resonate me a lot with my experience in India. Travelling in India for me is very hard to describe. I wonder a travel which has to involve a lot of precautions and prior research count a good one? even if it’s unique and culturally attractive.

  6. Thanks for this warning. I guess when you go to a less developed economy where people are hungry fir money, you must be prepared for scams. They should know they are killing the goose that lays the golden eggs.

  7. I would have left without paying anything. It kind of sickens me when anyone uses religion to coax money out of anyone.

  8. The Brahma temple has an interesting story. There seem to be so many rites and rituals in India, but I guess that’s what makes the culture so interesting. Too bad you had to fall pray to the flower scam. From all I understand if I go to India I should say NO to anything I didn’t ask for myself, lol!

  9. Wow, what an experience and so sad that the scam has to associated with religious groups. Glad you were able to get out of it. Traveling does require being attentive all the time. Thanks for sharing your experience. Another warning for travelers to Pushkar.

  10. I am sorry to hear about your experience but I am not surprised. I grew up in India, and it probably taught me how to find my way around scammers (they usually scam foreigners but they can try that with other Indians who’re not from the local area as well) and to be honest, such kind of scams are very common in many less developed countries with intense poverty. Of course, its not justified and its very irritating, I can totally understand that. But its the reality and you just need to learn to say NO. You did the right thing, your husband got fleeced and I’m sorry about that!

  11. Very unfortunate that you had to go through an experience of this kind in Pushkar. Its sad when people play on emotions like hope and trust. It could happen anywhere…almost happened to us in Paris, when a little girl pretended to pick up a fallen gold band and give it to us. Apparently, that is a common scam in Paris.

  12. I am so sorry that this happened to you. It is not just foreigners. These con men try to con every one. I start shaking my head when I see anyone coming towards me:) or ignore them completely. Contrary to a comment I read here, my opinion is scammers and thieves are every where or at least in the tourist areas. It has nothing to do with countries being less developed or more developed. I almost had my video camera stolen in Belgium and in the US I had to pay 100$ for a 50$ ride in a cab. I hope rest of your trip went off well. Are you still in India? Any chance of coming to Mumbai with your no-husband. 🙂

  13. So did the man that greeted you put the flower in your hand? You never said – just all of a sudden you are trying to throw a flower in the trash. I wouldn’t have taken the flower in the first place. There are so many places that people try to give you things – flowers, bracelets, henna or whatever – and then want money for them. Sucks that you fell in to the trap.

  14. We all been scammed when we traveled. I haven’t been to India, but I have heard that you should watch being scammed. I know you had a horrible time, but it is kinda funny to ask money for praying for each person in your family. If you stayed they would have asked about how many uncles and aunts you have

  15. Wow, what a rip. So annoying that they dragged you into that. Good to know so I know to avoid when visiting India someday.

  16. Reading your story felt like I was reliving my experience in Pushkar. I promise the same thing happened to me. I was visiting from USA, and was excited to conduct puja by the lake, as I am Hindu. At the end of the puja, the priest told me I had to feed 6 Brahmins for my prayers to be fulfilled – which equated to 6,000 rupees. I told him I didn’t have that much in cash, and he told me he can walk me to an ATM! Well I was beyond belief at this time – in the end I paid the money (which I did have in my wallet the entire time), and I saw it as they needed it more than I. Will never return to Pushkar again.

  17. I fell for it. Thought it was great fun. As I stood up to leave the Lake a shooting star entered the atmosphere and broke into many colours it lasted seconds and stayed in my mind for ever. The holy man thought he had great powers. . Nature is a wonderful thing. Like comedy , it’s all about the timing. Love Pushkar.
    The real scams are perpetrated by the suits in New York and London Banks.
    A scam like the “ flower” in Pushkar should be embraced and enjoyed.
    The company building the the local Pushkar golf course has stolen more from you without you even opening your wallet!

    Richard Munro

  18. Oh honey you do realize “no-husband” was part of the scam right? He’s working with the priest to get people to the lake. That’s why they took money from him because he didn’t keep his part of the deal

  19. Damn. Really sorry to hear your experience and the trauma you had to go through. Being an Indian, I can totally understand this all.

  20. I was in Pushkar a few months ago. This “scam” still goes on. You are targeted if they don’t see you wearing the sacred string around your wrist. I, too, was given a rose and then swept down to the lake by a charming man just to throw it in the lake. As soon as he collected a tray of items for the puja, I said I was sorry and that I didn’t have any money on me. He said not to worry about it.

    At the end of the ritual, the priest wanted me to chant, “I promise to give thousands of rupees for this blessing.” I said I couldn’t promise that because I had no money on me. They took me to the booth to pay and even looked in my purse and my tiny handbag to check!! I gave them all I had left – 50 rupees! I said, “I told you I didn’t have any money.” They were shocked and looked disappointed. So I had a lovely blessing for a “bargain” price! Ha ha!

    Also, in Indian communities everyone knows each other. No one will warn you of a scam, it’s their livelihood. That’s why they nabbed you as soon as you arrived. In fact, after a purchase, locals will shout out to other merchants how much you paid for something, so they know how much they can charge you!

    Traveller tip: nothing in life is free. Always ask how much something will cost and cover all your bases. For example, a free lift to a temple miles away? The ride BACK will cost you plenty!

  21. Thanks for posting this. I am planning to trip to there and will make sure to avoid these men. What we can do take a flower from anywhere if you find and chant the mantra by Googling it. Avoid people 😂

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