Dear girls of the world: Anything is possible

Dear girls of the world,

I came very close to not travelling the world, very close to not travelling at all actually, and that’s because people told me it was impossible. And I believed them.

I was born in the UK, I didn’t grow up in a rich family, but my family weren’t poor either. My family never travelled. I mean sure, we would go on holiday to British seaside towns. My mum would optimistically pack up the car with buckets and spades and picnic blankets, whilst my dad smoked endless packs of cigarettes. I remember heavy clouds and stormy seas, flecks of cold rain against my cheeks on an August day, and piping hot fish and chips wet with vinegar.

I want to go to China, I said. My mum smiled and said, it’s far away.

But my mum never told me it was impossible, she never told me anything was impossible, she would just smile.

In 2009, I went to university. No one had expected I’d make it that far, not because they didn’t believe in me, just because we didn’t know anyone else who had been to university. Yes, I was the first one in my family. I made friends with exchange students from different countries, places I’d never been to, and I listened to their stories of home. The more I listened, the more I wanted to travel the world…

At the end of my first year, I went to China.

I wrote an application for a government funded programme that sends a small number of students every year. I didn’t tell anybody about it, I thought I wouldn’t get accepted. And there I was, standing in Shanghai. I was surrounded by neon lights and skyscrapers, there were steaming stalls selling dumplings, and people practicing tai-chi in the park. I learned a little Chinese, bartered at the markets, and hiked on the Great Wall of China

My boyfriend broke up with me for going to China. He couldn’t understand why I didn’t want to stay put, and I couldn’t understand why he did. If I had to make the same decision again, I would do it in a heartbeat.

When I got back home, I was restless. I told people I wanted to travel all the time, I wanted to travel the whole world. It’s impossible, they said. Travelling is for the holidays, everyone likes a week away, eating pasta in Italy, you can’t just travel all the time.

I believed them, for a while. I thought going to China was impossible, I thought long-term travel was impossible, and I thought being a writer was impossible.

None of those things are impossible.

It took me a long time to realise that when people say something is impossible, it’s because they can’t imagine it, or because they simply don’t want to imagine it. Don’t let the limitations of other people’s imaginations hold you back. If you can imagine something is possible, then it is.

China was the first place I travelled to on my own and I’ve never looked back. I’m now a long-term traveller and house sitter, slowly making my way around Central America. I’m a writer too. I don’t earn a lot of money and sometimes my writing gets rejected, but I earn enough for my travels, and that’s all I need.

Don’t throw away your pen or your backpack because someone else says so. Hold onto your imagination and work toward achieving your dreams – the small ones and the big ones – every day. Anything is possible if you can imagine it.

who’s writing and traveling

Charlie is a long-term traveller, freelance writer and house sitter taking an alternative path across the world. Her travel blog,, is about simple, sustainable and socially-responsible travel.


  • August 25, 2014

    I would say “where there is a will there is a way ” this is exactly what you did and are doing. Congrats for living your life and doing it your way!

    • August 25, 2014

      Yes, that’s what my mum has always said to me actually. Thank you very much for your kind words, Michela! =)

  • August 26, 2014

    My Mum just said “but what will you do when you get there?”. I’m still not sure about the answer to that.

    • August 27, 2014

      Haha, that’s a great response from your mum! I also don’t know what the answer to that is. Enjoy it, I guess 🙂

  • August 26, 2014

    I’m happy to see Charlie here :-). You are so right sweetie – we should all follow our dreams no matter what others say!

    • August 27, 2014

      Yay, thanks Agness! Yes, we definitely should – and have an adventure in China!

    • August 27, 2014

      You girls are awesome! One of these days, I will follow your path in China. 🙂


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